What resolutions for 2016 … 3 astuces pour faire des meilleurs choix by Hôtel★★★ Restaurant gourmand Coco Lodge Majunga.
What resolutions for 2016 … 3 astuces pour faire des meilleurs choix by Hôtel★★★ Restaurant gourmand Coco Lodge Majunga.
3 Tips to make the best choices
Whether to choose a dish at the restaurant, a career or a life partner (one night or), make choices, This is often a time of cold sweats, where the heart beats strong, the throat is bound or even where it is downright panic total. Brief, It knows from the moments more sympatoches …
“Faced with all the possibilities that are available to us, the question is not only what to choose but how to choose in all lucidity what will make us happy, without be weighted by the weight of education, the conventions or the desire to please”, We explain the coaches-consultants and Maryvonne Lorenzen in their Book “Make the right choices”. In a little more than 200 pages, They merely explain the mechanism of decision making, What can make us us crash and - especially- How booster our choices.
Here 3 Tips from this excellent book.
1/ I understand my desire. For this, I take a book and I am reflecting on the week that just ended. There, I class all the choices I made, Depending on whether it's choice to meet my basic needs (eat, sleep,…), taken out of spite / obligation, for do not choose, or to achieve the positive result that I wanted. And there, PAF ! I noticed in fact, my choices are often “suffered” and not really selected. Ouch Ouch Ouch. But phew we breathe : In fact, This is nifty, because finally you see things as they are and can therefore resume the hand on our choices and our life. No, but !
2/ I become aware of my way of talking and thinking. Many of us multiply the twists in “I have to” rather than “I want”/”I want”/”I choose”. A detail ? Not at all, car These phrases show in fact that is more that it is / selects. Except that we, We want to remain the master of our lives ! Then now, We swapped the “I have to” and “It is necessary to” by “I choose”.
3/ I attack my blockages. Facing a situation that we cannot take, one wonders what should give up, what it would gain by abandoning then put all on an imaginary scale : is what I there would gain more by taking this decision or did I lose ? Weigh the alternatives allow better to anchor itself with what it really wants to, What is good for us and boost our motivation. Banzai!
by Hôtel★★★ Restaurant gourmand Coco Lodge Majunga.
